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Being on your own

None of this is expert advice. It's what people worked out for themselves, usually the hard way — what actually helped, and what they'd tell someone standing where you are. Take what fits and leave the rest.

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  1. Develop solo hobbies and interests to build comfort with your own company.

    Learning to enjoy solitude was my best self-care move; acquiring a solitary pastime is hugely helpful.

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  2. Do things that give you internal happiness and do not care what others think.

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  3. Focus on improving yourself for your own sake without looking for a partner, as this is when you may encounter them.

    Focusing on becoming the best version of yourself brings peace and happiness while single.

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  4. Practice meditation to learn how to be alone with your thoughts.

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  5. Start as friends with potential partners to build a foundation before making romantic moves.

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  1. Actively pursue dating opportunities by going out and engaging with potential partners.

    You may find a romantic partner.

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  2. Pause to judge your life and resolve personal issues before pursuing new relationships.

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  3. Set personal goals to create focus on yourself and distract from romantic pursuits.

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  4. Figure out what suits you personally; if being single makes you happy, recognize that a satisfying life is possible.

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  1. Read 'Models' by Mark Manson to learn about attracting partners through honesty.

    It covers attracting women through honesty.

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  2. Date yourself by engaging in activities you enjoy alone, such as going to movies, concerts, or taking solo trips, to build comfort with solitude and authenticity.

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    • Take up activities you love by yourself, such as dining out, reading, painting, or traveling.3

  3. Build deeper connections, friendships, and bonds instead of maintaining only superficial friends.

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  4. Associate with people who offer support and foster a positive environment.

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